Tuesday, 24 August 2010

The Stranger

Do you ever feel like you no longer 'fit in' with the rest of the crowd? You start feeling left out because you're different? People start thinking you're weird and you even start losing friends. Whether you're a revert or a muslim who has just started wearing hijab/niqab or changing for the sake of Allah, you've probably felt this way at some point. Although I know that sisters feel this way this way particularly if they live in non-muslim countries, my life in KSA has taught me that you could feel like a stranger even when you are among avlarge number of muslims. So why is it that whe feel this way?

“Islam began as something strange and will revert to being strange as it began, so give glad tidings to the strangers.” (Muslim, 145)

To understand the meaning of this hadith, listen to this short lecture by Sh. Khalid Yasin; one of the best lectures I've listened to.

A full explanation of what this hadith means can be found here, however here are a few excerpts:

The meaning of this hadeeth is that Islam began as something strange, when the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) called people to Islam, but no one responded except a few here and there. At that time it was something strange because its people were like strangers amongst others and they were few in number and weak, in contrast to the great numbers and strength of their enemies who persecuted the Muslims. Then some of them migrated to Abyssinia, fleeing for the sake of their religion from tribulation and to save themselves from persecution and oppression, and the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) migrated at Allaah’s command to Madeenah, after suffering intense persecution and in the hope that Allaah would give him people to support him in his call and support Islam. Allaah fulfilled his hopes, granted victory to his troops and supported His slave. The Islamic state was established and Islam spread, with the help of Allaah, throughout the land; Allaah made the word of kufr lowest and the word of Allaah is (always) uppermost, for Allaah is Almighty, All-Wise, and honour, power and glory belong to Allaah, and to His Messenger, and to the believers [cf al-Munaafiqoon 63:8].

This continued for a long time, then division and dissent spread among the Muslims and weakness and failure increased gradually, until Islam once again became something strange as it was in the beginning. But this is not because of their small numbers, because at that time they will be many, rather it is because they do not adhere to their religion or cling to the Book of their Lord and the teachings of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), apart from those whom Allaah wills. So they become distracted and turn to competing in worldly matters, like those who came before them, and they fight amongst themselves for leadership. So the enemies of Islam found a way in and they colonized their lands, humiliated their people and treated them badly. This is the way in which Islam returned to being strange as it was in the beginning.

A number of scholars – including Shaykh Muhammad Rasheed Rida – thought that this hadeeth gives glad tidings of a second victory of Islam after it becomes something strange again. They base this on the metaphor used by the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) when he said, “… will revert to being strange as it began.” So just as following the initial strangeness and alienation the Muslims were victorious and Islam spread, this will happen again after the second period of strangeness and alienation.

This view is more likely to be correct, and is supported by what is proven in the ahaadeeth about the Mahdi and the descent of ‘Eesa (peace be upon him) at the end of time, when Islam will spread and the Muslims will be victorious, and kufr and the kaafirs will be defeated.

I like what Sh. Yasin says at the end "...because strangers belong with strangers", something those of us who are unmarried must keep in mind when looking for a spouse.

"O muslim brothers and sisters, you and I, we should want to be strangers...But you should not ask for the reward of strangers, if you are not acting like the strangers"

وَالَّذِينَ جَاهَدُوا فِينَا لَنَهْدِيَنَّهُمْ سُبُلَنَا وَإِنَّ اللَّهَ لَمَعَ الْمُحْسِنِينَ

“As for those who strive hard in our cause, we will surely guide them to our paths (i.e. the straight path). And verily, Allah is with the Muhsinoon (good doers)." (Al-‘Ankaboot, 29: 69)


  1. Assalam alaykum sister :)
    Ramzan Mubarak :)
    long time since we spoke.
    hope all is well on your side :)
    Jazakallah Khair for the beautiful post . . .
    i agree that Islam is a religion of strangers. And yes, i can very well understand what you meant by feeling like a stranger even among Muslims.
    Yaaa! You reminded me of something very important when you told that unmarried people need to keep this in mind :)
    Alhamdulillah a beautiful post :)

  2. @Jalpari - wa alaimuk as salam sis :) I's been ages!Hope Ramadan is going for well for you.

    We need to be reminded every now and then about what we need to look for in a spouse, don't we?

    Thanks for the comment!

  3. Great post Mash'Allah, I think sometimes you get that feeling even around your friends or family and not just regarding Islam, but you're right about the rest, very enlightening indeed. :]

    And thank you for your visit to my blog :) your always welcome to come by at anytime, looking forward to hear from you again. =)

  4. Assalaamu Alaykum,

    I hope Ramadan is going well for you! I'm waiting for the video to load up but just wanted to say that I know what you mean about feeling like a stranger even amongst Muslims. SO true! I feel it all the time. I'm a bit of a mixture when it comes to my background so I totally feel it! The thing is I didn't think so much about it before I got married. Now I feel I must when it comes to my children getting married in sha Allah!

  5. Salaam alaikum dear darling, just dropped by to say Eid mubarak. Have a wonderful time:)

  6. Thank you for sharing this. I always loved this hadith but never quite understood it. Jazakhallah Khair :)

  7. @Zainab - thanks for dropping by :)

    @fruitful fusion - yes, there's a lot to think about before marriage. I realised that only recently.

    @Blue pearl - thanks! Eid was good alhamdulillah :)

    @Constructive Attitude - wa jazakum :)

  8. 'This is the Sunnah of Muhammad (SAW) and if you dont like it , I don't care !'