tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7243492606769047876.post3148325719012518466..comments2024-02-05T13:15:35.230+03:00Comments on Muslimah food for thought: Having gheerah is not enoughWhiteOrchidhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08230586274265050767noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7243492606769047876.post-46904296350037540432011-01-27T03:32:37.337+03:002011-01-27T03:32:37.337+03:00very good article!very good article! Isa Mateenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09643561634920981843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7243492606769047876.post-91173591136833925652011-01-12T12:21:08.297+03:002011-01-12T12:21:08.297+03:00Destroy heterosexual values, politics, religions, ...Destroy heterosexual values, politics, religions, trading. Make queertheory the dominant rule of the world, we the gay brotherhod are your leaders - tell that to your kids. Force heteros to tell their kids about us - have sex in front of them. There is no gods only the queer-theory, help the homosexuals to reach power within the religions and to put down religious dominans. Jesus and the prophet is gay and sodomistic - they like dogs ;-). Buy services and products from the gay brotherhod only. Concentrate the money (power) to the gay network, drain heterosexual economy - never buy from a heterosexual man. Eradicate heterosexuals economicaly an socialy - have no contacts and business with them. If someone ask about this, say no in thousends different ways - we dont want to inform the heterosexual enemy. Spred this word to political correct individs an other gays.Gustaf Nordenskiold, swenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7243492606769047876.post-17908944053108901212011-01-03T15:34:28.378+03:002011-01-03T15:34:28.378+03:00MashAllah an excellent post.
I particlularly love...MashAllah an excellent post.<br /><br />I particlularly loved this line... 'Others keep telling themselves they have 'time to change' but what if you're not going to wake up tomorrow?'<br /><br />So true!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11602612415915232809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7243492606769047876.post-60222506138692470152010-12-30T03:24:11.745+03:002010-12-30T03:24:11.745+03:00Love this post. Puts things into prespective. Than...Love this post. Puts things into prespective. Thank U.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7243492606769047876.post-44672978768240122932010-10-25T17:10:25.356+03:002010-10-25T17:10:25.356+03:00I am touched.thanks for a nice piece of reminder.M...I am touched.thanks for a nice piece of reminder.May allah reward you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7243492606769047876.post-53663899039030895802010-10-25T04:04:58.774+03:002010-10-25T04:04:58.774+03:00salamunalaikum sis.
Mashallah! An insightful and...salamunalaikum sis.<br /><br /><br />Mashallah! An insightful and reflective post.<br /><br />I agree with all that you have said here.<br /><br />How we deal with others is how we will be dealt with.Hamidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12548289453771338703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7243492606769047876.post-4374680759961519482010-10-24T22:18:12.847+03:002010-10-24T22:18:12.847+03:00Salam alaikum sister. Im not on blogger but i do f...Salam alaikum sister. Im not on blogger but i do follow your blog.<br /><br />I remember when I had male friends I thought it really odd when a religious guy asked if I wanted to meet up, even if he was decent. You bring up some very good points in this post Mashallah. I would never marry a man who i knew was too friendly with women because I dont have close male friends, unless of course he had to speak to some at work for example, that too with limits.<br /><br />It's unfair for them to expect a righteous girl while they are involved in all kinds of things. I wonder if they ever feel guilty. The problem with men is that they think it's fine as long as they don't have a gf and haold their hand, etc. Flirting online for example is just as bad.<br /><br />You should blog more often :) <br />WassalamSarah A.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7243492606769047876.post-9641655973128467742010-10-24T14:44:20.083+03:002010-10-24T14:44:20.083+03:00I really enjoyed this post! I believe a certain am...I really enjoyed this post! I believe a certain amount of jealousy is healthy and that there shouldn't be double standards because someone is bound to get hurt in the end. <br /><br />"Some think they can change themselves once they are married; I really don't know how that is supposed to work. If you can't keep away now from this fitna now, likelihood is that you'll miss it even later on and it can affect your marriage."<br /><br />So true! Very good point.Shahirah Elaizahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08332951368178817982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7243492606769047876.post-30135505854632947512010-10-24T12:42:16.978+03:002010-10-24T12:42:16.978+03:00So although the result is the doublestandard man t...So although the result is the doublestandard man the problem begins with the negligent father AND mother ! How often do we see mothers and fathers giving too much freedom to the boy because well 'boys will be boys'and the girl is given more responsibility at home. It is the sunnah of the Prophet (SAW) to help out at home and even throw the garbage! We need to start by addressing by our homes first and do everything first to restore Islam in our homes Inshllah , it is best for us and society in general. Otherwise i think it will be like curing the syptoms without the disease.<br /><br />The issue about the marriage and the change it brings out or supposed to , inshllah will talk about that in the future if time permits inshllah.In the meantime JazakAllah for the post and keep them coming----Striving Introspective-----https://www.blogger.com/profile/04158378273357955726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7243492606769047876.post-43205868114141667282010-10-24T12:41:03.754+03:002010-10-24T12:41:03.754+03:00Assalaamu'alaikum,fantastic article.Very artic...Assalaamu'alaikum,fantastic article.Very articulately conveyed. Certainly a topic that needs urgent addressing.<br />The wisdom of our Shariah is sometimes beyond our comprehension SubhanAllah and it takes time to sink in. Its such a wholistic concept that we need to look at the bigger picture to get a better understanding of it.<br /><br />The layman may wonder why Islam makes such a big deal about even just talking with women but our shariah is so deep that not only does it outright prohibit but also prevents the roads that lead to the prohibitted.One stare can lead to much mischeif and SubhanAllah muslim men are adviced to lower their gaze whilst the rest of world is hooked on to the love at first sight delure.They then ponder how they have so much of vice in their society after neglecting God and taking to secularism ! Single parents,unfathered children,adultery,divorce,rape,crime !!!<br /><br />The point im trying to make here is that the highlighted behaviour of modern muslim men and their doublestandards is directly related to how we have failed to build the very basic unit of society (the family) on islamic principles and rules.<br /><br />Although this problem might seem as an extrinsic social problem this is IMO more of intrinsic family problem and got to do with how kids are brought up and what type of society they are exposed to.<br /><br />We get desensitised to mingling with the opposite sex when we have attended mixed schools right throughout,when we have grown up watching 'friends' and when 'love' is fantasized by everything and everyone around us !----Striving Introspective-----https://www.blogger.com/profile/04158378273357955726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7243492606769047876.post-80085758505033899942010-10-23T23:08:35.588+03:002010-10-23T23:08:35.588+03:00Nicely said! thanks for posting :)Nicely said! thanks for posting :)¤•˚Zαìήαβ˚•¤https://www.blogger.com/profile/02544377016962083494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7243492606769047876.post-55609124652951012952010-10-23T20:17:46.239+03:002010-10-23T20:17:46.239+03:00Assalaamu'alaikum sis. This post is very well ...Assalaamu'alaikum sis. This post is very well written, mashaAllah. A very good reminder indeed!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16290311167695762085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7243492606769047876.post-91500991841259771932010-10-23T19:54:34.906+03:002010-10-23T19:54:34.906+03:00Salaamu Alaikum Sister,
Thank you for this post! A...Salaamu Alaikum Sister,<br />Thank you for this post! Alhamdullilah, my husband and I do NOT talk to anyone is of the opposite gender (unless mahram of course). Thank god he has not lost his Gheerah, and I DEFINITELY have not. I'm a very jealous person when it comes to any woman that islamically he is not allowed to be speaking with. But mashallah he takes it well. lol. And also, it is a reason why our marriage has blessed I believe (or rather it is the blessing of our marriage alhamdullilah) because we don't play any stupid games to get each other jealous. So many times I have my friends (who don't practice) talk about their boy friends and how they are in a fight with them because they are flirting with other girls...I just want to shake them and be like ok, dump him, you are not going to end up with him, you are seriously kidding yourself..argh. But really, they need to work on themselves and their deen, its not the non-muslim guys fault.AlabasterMuslimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16391496200607792492noreply@blogger.com